Comments on: Man sent to prison for murder of former Cedar Rapids woman http://gazetteonline.com/local-news/public-safety/2009/11/04/man-sent-to-prison-for-murder-of-former-cedar-rapids-woman Eastern Iowa Breaking and Headline News Tue, 16 Mar 2010 15:48:25 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: JohnMcGhttp://gazetteonline.com/local-news/public-safety/2009/11/04/man-sent-to-prison-for-murder-of-former-cedar-rapids-woman/comment-page-1#comment-144781 JohnMcG Thu, 05 Nov 2009 20:31:59 +0000 http://gazetteonline.com/?p=56057#comment-144781 Photo of Salinas <a href="http:\/\/www.therolladailynews.com\/archive\/x880805868\/g258258fad78b4c677e0ce473fb38a66afbbe4b1d769f7f.jpg" target="_blank">in shackles and bulletproof vest at sentencing</a> Photo of Salinas in shackles and bulletproof vest at sentencing

]]> By: ctigerhttp://gazetteonline.com/local-news/public-safety/2009/11/04/man-sent-to-prison-for-murder-of-former-cedar-rapids-woman/comment-page-1#comment-144676 ctiger Thu, 05 Nov 2009 16:49:00 +0000 http://gazetteonline.com/?p=56057#comment-144676 I left you a reply, but can only see it on my profile page and not here. You are correct about men becoming victims too, but I think they don't come forward;due to shame; as often as women do. I left you a reply, but can only see it on my profile page and not here. You are correct about men becoming victims too, but I think they don't come forward;due to shame; as often as women do.

]]> By: ctigerhttp://gazetteonline.com/local-news/public-safety/2009/11/04/man-sent-to-prison-for-murder-of-former-cedar-rapids-woman/comment-page-1#comment-144635 ctiger Thu, 05 Nov 2009 15:12:03 +0000 http://gazetteonline.com/?p=56057#comment-144635 Correct, men can also fall into this trap, just not as frequently as women do. I've done a lot of counseling for people, to teach them to see where they need to believe that they deserve better than they think and to teach them to recognize the methods of controllers. Correct, men can also fall into this trap, just not as frequently as women do. I've done a lot of counseling for people, to teach them to see where they need to believe that they deserve better than they think and to teach them to recognize the methods of controllers.

]]> By: GrandpaRhttp://gazetteonline.com/local-news/public-safety/2009/11/04/man-sent-to-prison-for-murder-of-former-cedar-rapids-woman/comment-page-1#comment-144628 GrandpaR Thu, 05 Nov 2009 14:57:37 +0000 http://gazetteonline.com/?p=56057#comment-144628 Ctiger, you nailed it. You can see this happening again and again. It isn't just the women. Men can fall into this situation just as easily. I'm sure you will agree. You keep thinking you can change them or they will change on their own, but it never happens. Ctiger, you nailed it. You can see this happening again and again. It isn't just the women. Men can fall into this situation just as easily. I'm sure you will agree. You keep thinking you can change them or they will change on their own, but it never happens.

]]> By: ctigerhttp://gazetteonline.com/local-news/public-safety/2009/11/04/man-sent-to-prison-for-murder-of-former-cedar-rapids-woman/comment-page-1#comment-144622 ctiger Thu, 05 Nov 2009 14:40:40 +0000 http://gazetteonline.com/?p=56057#comment-144622 People who lack self esteem are drawn to those they think they deserve. These women believe that if they can hit upon just the right thing to do, they will be treated better. Abusers take advantage of this and make sure the women never do the "right thing". People who lack self esteem are drawn to those they think they deserve. These women believe that if they can hit upon just the right thing to do, they will be treated better. Abusers take advantage of this and make sure the women never do the "right thing".

]]> By: sincereladyhttp://gazetteonline.com/local-news/public-safety/2009/11/04/man-sent-to-prison-for-murder-of-former-cedar-rapids-woman/comment-page-1#comment-144617 sincerelady Thu, 05 Nov 2009 14:25:16 +0000 http://gazetteonline.com/?p=56057#comment-144617 Why do women allow themselves to become involved with men like this. Can they not see what they are like? Or did she think she could "change" him. They never change. Why do women allow themselves to become involved with men like this. Can they not see what they are like? Or did she think she could "change" him. They never change.

]]> By: Gotoutoftownhttp://gazetteonline.com/local-news/public-safety/2009/11/04/man-sent-to-prison-for-murder-of-former-cedar-rapids-woman/comment-page-1#comment-144583 Gotoutoftown Thu, 05 Nov 2009 12:23:12 +0000 http://gazetteonline.com/?p=56057#comment-144583 I worked with Sal at Rockwell, the daughter's comments are not far off base. He was a self-centered habitual liar. If you talked to Sal today he woud tell you that he was so important and well respected in prison that he was being promoted to Warden. I worked with Sal at Rockwell, the daughter's comments are not far off base. He was a self-centered habitual liar. If you talked to Sal today he woud tell you that he was so important and well respected in prison that he was being promoted to Warden.

]]> By: cloudbursthttp://gazetteonline.com/local-news/public-safety/2009/11/04/man-sent-to-prison-for-murder-of-former-cedar-rapids-woman/comment-page-1#comment-144520 cloudburst Thu, 05 Nov 2009 03:22:01 +0000 http://gazetteonline.com/?p=56057#comment-144520 GrandpaR, 71 yrs old plus 25 yrs= 96 years old. I doubt he makes it 10 more years in prison GrandpaR,

71 yrs old plus 25 yrs= 96 years old.
I doubt he makes it 10 more years in prison

]]> By: GrandpaRhttp://gazetteonline.com/local-news/public-safety/2009/11/04/man-sent-to-prison-for-murder-of-former-cedar-rapids-woman/comment-page-1#comment-144490 GrandpaR Thu, 05 Nov 2009 01:51:26 +0000 http://gazetteonline.com/?p=56057#comment-144490 And he only gets 25 years. WHY ? And he only gets 25 years. WHY ?

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